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Someone who knows more than you... comments on My Six-Year-Old the EMO Teenager

Someone who knows more than you... — Sun, 11 May 2014 18:53:02 +0000

Listen to me, if your kid hasn't gotten better in 5 years, he wants you to listen. Don't call him "EMO and shit", accept him. Tell him that you and your wife are ready to listen to him and all he has to say. He might be hiding something, maybe he is kicking his sister because the kids at his school are pressuring him. The kids might also be bullying him, making fun of him, (and maybe his face), so he hides it with his hair. Black "goes with anything", so that is why some people dye their hair, to blend in. If he dyes it, don't call him "EMO and shit", talk to him as of why he wants to. Ask one of his teachers to monitor him one day, but not too close, not obvious, and not to interfere with anything that goes on, even bullying, (If it happens). Who knows, maybe he likes a boy instead of a girl, he might be scared you don't accept him and he wants to hide it because he thinks you might treat him the way people do at school, (If it happens). And did you think about taking him to a therapist? Don't treat him like crap, kids can be depressed. Maybe he kicked his sister because a girl was mean to him at school, or he wanted to be 'bigger' than someone, or feel bigger, at least. Don't treat him like crap or talk about him behind his back, and do NOT go to other parents for help. They don't know your child, they don't know your situation at home or in his school. Ask a professional, if you must, but make sure you tell them about your child, your home situations, and anything that has happened in the past that could reflect on this. And don't accuse kids of being depressed for some stupid reason, because your child probably understands more than you think. People sometimes forget that children are influenced by their parents or the people around them. He could've heard a phone call, or listened from the staircase. If he doesn't want to talk, don't push him, and let him stare angrily through a window. Get him some music, music can help you through a lot, I know for a fact, and let him stare at his Clash poster all day long. Don't be a bad Dad, be your kid's hero.

-Anonymous

dan comments on The Wife & I Discuss Testicles

dan — Thu, 01 May 2014 13:50:58 +0000

women commit more child abuse and infant murders. maybe you should joke about how ovaries cause those crimes and see if she takes it well.

joking or not, it's kinda derogatory towards men.

Trauma Dad comments on A Rookie Mistake

Trauma Dad — Wed, 05 Mar 2014 19:25:33 +0000

So good! Also, you just saved me a huge headache for my own future intervention. Thank you!

Me comments on 1-2-3 Magic Can Suck It!

Me — Thu, 07 Nov 2013 21:56:07 +0000

Author of this post admits She never read the book, and it shows in every line of her text!! there is way too more to this method. You clearly have no clue how to handle it right. If you read the book, as you were supposed to, you would know that certain type of behavior gets count of three right away, skipping the one and two part!!! This is just one example of how you really don't know anything about this method. Seriously, read the book first!

Bonds Underwear comments on Wanna See My Underwear?!

Bonds Underwear — Sat, 21 Sep 2013 11:08:01 +0000

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Howard Egger-Bovet comments on A Rookie Mistake

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Elian Gonzalez comments on I Sleep Naked

Elian Gonzalez — Mon, 09 Sep 2013 01:02:28 +0000

Oh, come on. The longer people keep acting as though what makes a man a man is something gross and indecent, the more uptight you're going to make your kids.

Roger comments on I Sleep Naked

Roger — Wed, 14 Aug 2013 18:55:40 +0000

Nudity is natural and normal. There's no reason to freak out if your children see you naked, whether it be same sex or opposite sex. Our children take showers with us Sometimes. nudity is not uncommon in our house. When they ask about the difference, We just told them" Because God made us different"
And yes they have walked in a time or while we were having sex because we forgot to lock the door. We just told him That is the way mommies and daddies love each other, or something real simple and basic. It's only a big deal if you make a big deal out of it.

John comments on I Am My Wife's Lil-Bitch

John — Wed, 13 Mar 2013 11:09:46 +0000

Hey Buddy,

I understand entirely. For several years, for the sake of the kids, I put up with this kind of abuse,until I noticed she was being just as big a piece of shit to the kids, I put up with this kind of behaviour. Tonight, after years of abuse, I just old her I want a divorce, no really, I actually do mean that I want a divorce (in Australia we get 50/50 custody); and surprise, surprise she started crying and behaving like a civil human being. Too late! She punched me twice tonight because she was in a bad mood (not unusual because she thinks that domestic violence is only when men hit women). I held it together for my sons for years because I only wanted them to experience a loving family, but when this person constantly trashes me in front of them and then trashes them (they are great kids and don't deserve it) I will not be a wuss and let them be fucked up by her too.

Trust me mate, if your wife is as fucked as you described, you should leave her. The kids are the most important thing, make sure she doesn't fuck them up too (when my wife trashes me, she trashes me in front of the children and tells them not to be like me). Ironically, she usually winds up by saying "unfortunately, you are the perfect father". (Nevertheless, she tells the kids I am a loser, etc) . The boys can't constantly be told that the father they love is a loser, without serious psychological repercussions. They do love me and I am obviously a strong role model for them, this woman can only fuck them up and I won't let her.

My kids happiness means far more to me than my own. I after years of trying to save the family happiness by deferring to this immature piece of crap, who occasionally pretends to be a mother to them, I am going to strike a blow for my kids and get divorced. It will cost s ship-load, especially the lawyers, but the kids can grow up with their self esteem and know they don't have to stay in an abusive relationship when they grow up.

I actually feel bad for waiting so long, because I feel that the kids have wanted me to do this for some time. Ironically, they seem to have better recognised their mother's inadequacies and defective personality, some time ago. They love her, but they don't want to put up with her for long, they seem to be sympathising with me and "giving me the nod". I have to say, that the economic side of my divorce seems expensive (I have been economising the possibility for some time), but my time with the kids without that bitch is "gold" and I will never be responsible for her BS ever again. Furthermore, if she abuses the kids, I will also get 100 per cent custody, which will make the kids and me very happy (at the moment mama is someone they love but want to keep a distance from because she is so abusive).

Don't get me wrong, I am by no means a misogynist, there are plenty of male A-holes who are just as bad, but i=as your wife is just a passenger, putting up with her BS will only cause you and the kids more grief in the long run. If you are only holding on for the BJs, you are pathetic, they are not so hard to come by. Your kids come first! Man up and divorce the useless bitch!!

Cheers (a new life awaits)

JJ!

Stef comments on The Punishment

Stef — Thu, 28 Feb 2013 01:09:07 +0000

yeah, it's the worst when one parent lays down a punishment and then leaves the other to uphold the punishment when he (or she) leaves for work for the day. yeah- it's happened.